Smells Can Take You Places: A Gentle Reflective Piece
A reflective piece brimming with memory, sensory association, and nostalgia.
Smells - A Thought
Smells can really take you places. For most of us, our vision dominates how we perceive the world. But sometimes, when you attune yourself to your environment, living and breathing spaces, a smell can take you on a stroll down the memory lane. Or even to visions of the future. Sometimes, an oracular realisation of a philosophical message. It may even ground you better in the moment by cultivating presence.
An Experience
A simple recent experience triggered
this thought. That evening, the sky seemed to be clearing a bit after a gentle
downpour. The air scented of petrichor, which I seemed to be relishing. I
enjoyed getting my feet wet in pools of water, trying to thoroughly soak in the
sublime experience. As I walked past scrubs and bushes having bathed in water,
I could simply not resist the mellowing curiosity to examine pearls of water
crowned on leaves. Oh, the rustic joys I delightfully indulge in! It is at this
moment, a faint sweet smell caught my attention. I was immediately summoned by
my senses to the fore. The smell had a distinct old-world charm to it. It instantly
transported me to my grandparents’ place, not anywhere close to the
countryside, but an urban town. However, the place does still embody the
essence of slow meaningful living.
The air there smells soulfully of nature
in its unadulterated forms and everything else we associate with slower,
meaningful living. Like, baked goods! Yes, the art of baking pulls alongside
skills of precision, patience, detail, and a spoonful of love. All reminiscent
of meaning-making by smoothly and purposefully gliding through life, not sloth.
And it would be inappropriate to not mention the rich aroma of butter, cocoa,
sugar, milk among others, that seldom fail to appease the sweet-toothed. Why am
I mentioning all of this? For a bakery lies nearby my grandparents’ place. And
it’s a bakery typical to towns in the South of India, like the famous
“Iyengar’s”. There’s nothing five-star and suffocatingly polish about these
bakeries, just a characteristic experience of slow living, unique to the small
towns of India. Although I do have a proclivity for grandeur, I do sometimes
appreciate spaces that breathe life and meaning, irrespective of where they’re
located. And mind you, the Indian rural can get chaotic and densely populated,
and when that happens, you have no choice but to bid adieu to romanticised
tranquil living (!).
A Realisation
The air smelled heavily of baked goodies. Indians proudly love baked goodies. And a cup of tea or coffee (depends on whether you’re closer to the equator or not!) accompanying it, is sure to leave anyone and everyone pleasantly appetised. And as I tried to make sense of why the smell brought along a sense of comfort and saudade, my intuitive mind dropped an answer. It was all the while taking me back to my grandparents’ place.
This makes me wonder how the very
experience of living, is a unique and irreplaceable one. How perception
drastically varies from human to human. I’m not even sure, if the ones running
those bakeries feel this way! But this is what makes the experience of life
distinctly unique for each one of us. This is what makes lived experiences
meaningful, not a random series of unrelated events.
I realised that this experience also
mirrors my unconscious longing for places charged with solitude. Also, that
even though achievements and big days are often used as a metric to ‘measure’
the purposefulness of one’s life, I strongly believe, that these little
experiences also shape memory, the lens of perception and what meaning we
ultimately attribute to the grand scheme of things.
Gaurav Chandra Tuli
Beautifully expressed. Loved it.
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